Today I will confer with you a really necessary topic. It is not only related with medical issues but social also.
Virgin, though a six letter word but has a thousand word impacts on the mind of our conservative society.
In our culture women’s virginity is valued highly. And, losing one’s virginity before wedding could be a big-big taboo.
The association of virginity loss with a penetrative epithelial duct sexual act is problematic. It makes heterosexual sex the quality by which we know virginity.
But virginity and hymens continue to be a matter of life and death for women in our conservative culture.
In religions like Islam, Hinduism and numerous sects of Christianity and Judaism, sex before marriage is often forbidden.
Bleeding throughout the initial marital intercourse becomes proof of virginity. And some cultural ceremonies involve a bride showing her blood-stained bed sheets to her in-laws.
Friends this is the kind of pressure that women have to face for her virginity.
But friends, many at times people have been misinformed biologically that a woman bleeds during first-time sex. How do we eradicate this untrue belief? Science has proven that the hymen explains it all.
First for this we need to understand
The hymen is a membrane that covers part of the vaginal opening. It doesn’t always block or cover the whole vagina. If it did, girls wouldn’t be able to menstruate.
The hymnal tissue wears away with time and the opening widens as a result of exercise or the use of tampons.
Hymens appear in different shapes and sizes; some women are even born without hymen. Human hymens have no clear biological purpose.
Now friends if a woman for any reason
The Hymenoplasty procedure allows her to safeguard her future in the conservative society. She can still attempt to opt for a traditional wedding without the fear of social stigma and enjoy their marriage life.
Hymenoplasty in layman’s words suggests that obtaining a woman’s virginity back with a cosmetic surgery of the Hymen!
With modern advancements friends, the medical system has been armed with cosmetic solutions for the women today. Plastic surgeons across the country are recreating female virginity with a simple procedure.
Hymenoplasty is plastic surgery of the hymen. It is a surgery without pain that reconstructs the hymen which tears throughout sexual intercourse, or trauma.
Hymenoplasty is also known as hymenorrhaphy. Surgeons would use a flap of vaginal lining for cosmetic restoration or construction of the hymen.
Restoration of the hymen is also known as revirginization. It holds considerable significance across many countries and cultures.
Sometimes, the procedure of vaginal rejuvenation is also performed along with restoration of hymen as the vagina may become lax with age.
Hymenoplasty is a growing trend today. But it holds significant value for women – both physically and psychologically.
It is not just about sexual activity, but even with strenuous athletic activities that the hymen may break. There are varied reasons women cite to go through this procedure:
The numbers have undoubtedly accrued over the last 5 years. But I wouldn’t call it a dramatic increase.
It’s generally unmarried, young women, at least 60 per cent of whom are college students. They are so much worried about what their families and also the prospective grooms can say, so they insist on getting the procedure done.
Can virginity be restored? Is hymenoplasty helpful in regaining virginity?Here is my answer
Yes, of course! Once a Hymenoplasty is performed, it bleeds normally on having sex like vagina usually does. It looks 100% natural with absolutely no traces of any surgery being detected.
Hymenoplasty could be a short surgery, usually performed under a local anesthesia. We stitch up the torn edges of the hymen with fine dis solvable sutures, leaving no signs of any surgery being done. The sutures dissolve and also the recovery takes a couple of week. There might be slight bleeding for 2 to 3 days.
We recommend the patients to use some pads and antibiotics to use outside.
There are many techniques that used in hymenoplasty. The most common are flap technique, luminal reduction, surgical adhesion, and suture only technique.
Whatever the technique is used, the ultimate goal is forming between hymen remnants and narrowing the introitus. If the surgery is completed correctly and with success, the touched-up hymen become as good as new and it bleeds on sexual penetration.
In case of any discomfort, the patient should directly inform the doctor to avoid any attainable risks and complications.
You can get a hymenoplasty done at any time as per you would like. If you are unmarried, it is advisable at least two or three months before marriage. Once the surgery is completed, it is as normal as the original, and won’t break until sexual intercourse is resumed again.
Women choose hymenoplasty procedure because of cultural and religious beliefs. The eligible candidates may include as such below:
There is no evident risk concerned throughout or after the surgery, as well as there is no complication either.
There might be mild bleeding happen from the surgical wound. It possibly caused by walking or other activities, due to use of small dissolving suture.
Usually the discomfort or swellings in the outer part of the vagina will apparently subsidies within 24 to 48 hours.
While a woman may resume work the next day, any kind of stressful activity should be avoided. She should rest assured that doctors these days do their best to make the woman feel comfortable and confident in a way she feels right!
Well, most of my hymenoplasty patients ask me about
How it will effect on their future pregnancy? Or will there be any future problems during pregnancy?
I have told my patients and I am also telling you friends that here are no risks with regard to future pregnancy. You will get pregnant normally.
The recovery and complete healing from hymenoplasty may take up to 4-6 weeks. However, the patient can resume the work in a day or 2 after the operation.
The patient is usually recommended to see the doctor right away if any unforeseen conditions like fever, bleeding and abdominal pain occurs.
You should refrain yourself with active sex till you’re absolutely recovered from the surgery.
Hymenoplasty could be a safe procedure because it does not involve any foreign material getting used. The sutures that we have tendency to use are made of dis solvable material.
The natural membrane grows over the sutures covering it and forms a new natural mucosal membrane like the original hymen.
Yes. A hymen reconstruction is a tiny stitch procedure.It can be done more than once and is also safe.
Friends there are some useful information I want to share with you apart from hymenoplasty. They are
Labiaplasty: External folds of genitalia are called labia. Sometimes they become very large and asymmetrical.
So reshaping of the external skin folds of the vagina is called Labiaplasty.
Labiaplasty changes the dimensions or form of the labia, typically making them smaller or correcting an asymmetry between them.
This is not only done in younger women but also in older women to give an aesthetic look to their genetilia.
Vaginoplasty: The vagina in young women is usually tight. It gets loose with traditional delivery, age or obesity. If you want to get a vaginal tightened, and if your doctor also advises the same, it calls for a surgery called vaginoplasty.
It is a procedure that does “tighten up” the vagina that’s become slack or loose from childbirth or aging. It is a scar less and undetectable procedure.
Clitoridectomy: Sometimes informally called cutting. Clitoridectomy is the surgical removal of the clitoris.
It is a highly sensitive button-like part of the female reproductive system used mainly to heighten sexual pleasure.
It is also called circumcision of the female.
G – Spot Enhancement: the G-Spot is an area inside the vagina that is composed of erectile tissue.
It plays a major role in intercourse since it leads to strong sexual arousal. In this procedure we put some filler inside the G-Spot.
So friends there are every kind of patients that i usually come across for hymenoplasty. And, they are:
We assured our patients of being professionally confidential with our clients. As most of our clients are young women who are afraid of their families and society.
We respect our patient’s privacy and kept it confidential.
So friends, through Hymenoplasty women are re-verginised. It is a simple and painless procedure in which the hymen is surgically repaired.
Women can actually become Virgin again.
Dr. Sandeep Bhasin, M.S. in the year 2000 and he is an award winning and renowned senior Laparoscopic and cosmetic surgeon in Delhi. Dr. Sandeep Bhasin is Known for his expertise in Cosmetic and reconstructive surgery and over the years he has distinguished himself among his peers with his outstanding surgical skills and innovation.
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